318 Episodes

  1. Enjoying High Tea, Overcoming Terrible Handwriting, Tipping for Gas in New Jersey, and More

    Published: 9/12/2022
  2. Holiday Break: Enjoying Peking Duck, Borrowing DVDs Without Returning Them, Flaunting Office Ice Cube Rules, and More

    Published: 9/5/2022
  3. Wearing Hotel Robes, RSVPing with Explanations, Waving on Rural Roads, and More

    Published: 8/29/2022
  4. Going Camping, Being Uninvited to Weddings, Giving Gift Cards, and More

    Published: 8/22/2022
  5. Harvesting Office Cilantro, Returning Dirty Aprons, Painting Nails on Airplanes, and More

    Published: 8/15/2022
  6. Slurping Ice Cream Sodas, Shopping at Farmers Markets, Finding Silver Linings, and More

    Published: 8/8/2022
  7. Giving People Shopping Lists, Receiving Mysterious Gifts, Ruining People's Weddings, and More

    Published: 8/1/2022
  8. Behaving In Group Fitness Classes, Being Nosy About Engagement Rings, Littering in Rome, and More

    Published: 7/25/2022
  9. Leaving Items Behind, Using Postcards for Wedding Thank You Notes, Talking Loudly on Airplanes, and More

    Published: 7/18/2022
  10. Eating Soup Dumplings, Navigating Airport Security, Waving While Driving, and More

    Published: 7/11/2022
  11. Summer Break: Attending Polo Matches, Inquiring About Missing Invitations, Receiving Outrageous Emails, and More

    Published: 7/4/2022
  12. Sharing Combs at Gyms, Hijacking Hiking Plans, Starting Toilet Paper Rolls, and More

    Published: 6/27/2022
  13. Eating Pizza, Singing Karaoke, Criticizing Cultures, and More

    Published: 6/20/2022
  14. Removing Shoes at Weddings, Opening Neighbors' Mail, Being Empty-Handed at Potlucks, and More

    Published: 6/13/2022
  15. Throwing Parties for Disliked Bosses, Taking Responsibility for Dryer Lint, Cleaning Rugs Late at Night, and More

    Published: 6/6/2022
  16. Going to Drive-Thrus Near Closing Time, Asking for Drink Refills, Throwing Parties During Weddings, and More

    Published: 5/30/2022
  17. Drinking Tea with Milk, Wearing Bright Colors At Funerals, Parking In Someone Else's Spot, and More

    Published: 5/23/2022
  18. Taking House Tours, Backing Out of Dinners, Attending Surprise Weddings, and More

    Published: 5/16/2022
  19. Enjoying Escargot, Traveling with Co-workers, Sharing Hot Tubs, and More

    Published: 5/9/2022
  20. Singing Along During Musicals, Flipping Over Wine Bottles, Using Dirty Bathrooms, and More

    Published: 5/2/2022

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Editors’ Notes: “I want to give everybody the tools to solve their own etiquette problems,” says Nick Leighton, cohost and producer of Were You Raised by Wolves?, a weekly podcast in which he and cohost Leah Bonnema look into the many sticky social situations we all face. “With each of the questions that we get, from the bonkers to the ordinary, I always try to take a step back and ask, ‘What are the bigger principles here?’ I'm always looking for topics that help us make a larger point.” In each episode, Leighton, a two-time Emmy Award-winning journalist, and Bonnema, a comic/writer, share practical advice on how to navigate a wide range of situations, from the serious to the whimsical—whether they tackle interrupting excessive talkers, establishing healthy boundaries with coworkers, or the proper way to eat Cheetos.When they developed the show in 2019, Leighton and Bonnema had one goal in mind: to have empathy for other people. Their informal conversations tackle a mix of personal topics, viewer questions, and the occasional historical fact with warmth and positivity and humor. Leighton views this approach as an antidote to a lot of the negativity he sees in the online world, while Bonnema thinks the show’s premise is a natural fit for her situational style of comedy. “A lot of my comedy is about events where I’m like, ‘What just happened here?’ or where I embarrass myself,” she says. “And, ironically, all of these fall under the guise of etiquette, where you either feel aggrieved or you feel like you committed some sort of social crime. I just loved the topic.”Leighton and Bonnema credit the show’s ongoing success to their work ethic. They haven’t missed a single week since they launched the show, which recently hit a new milestone: 100 episodes. But what they value the most, above all else, is how they've built a community of listeners from all backgrounds. “We have conservative grandmothers in Tallahassee to nonbinary chefs in Seattle and everybody in between,” he says. “Because who among us has not experienced an etiquette crime? This is universal.”---Etiquette, manners, and beyond! Join Emmy® Award-winning journalist Nick Leighton and acclaimed comedian Leah Bonnema ("Late Show with Stephen Colbert"), the perfect odd couple, as they try to make the world a nicer, more polite place and offer up practical advice to help you smoothly glide through any situation. Please listen and follow! (We'd send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)