318 Episodes

  1. Returning Dirty Handkerchiefs, Reading Office Emails Aloud, Getting Permission from References, and More

    Published: 1/30/2023
  2. Eating Rambutans, Using QR Code Menus, Paying For Free Theatre, and More

    Published: 1/23/2023
  3. Sharing French Fries Fairly, Doing Dishes Incorrectly, Inviting Enemies to Parties, and More

    Published: 1/16/2023
  4. Eating Off Trenchers, Butting Into Conversations, Serving Instant Coffee, and More

    Published: 1/9/2023
  5. Holiday Break: Giving Red Envelopes, Reseating in Theaters, Cancelling on Friends, and More

    Published: 1/2/2023
  6. Holiday Break: Tipping at the Holidays, Ordering Too Much at Drive-Thrus, Begging for Gifts, and More

    Published: 12/26/2022
  7. Blasting Holiday Lights, Announcing Weddings in Holiday Cards, Reciprocating Expensive Gifts, and More

    Published: 12/19/2022
  8. Surviving the Holidays, Running in Cemeteries, Using Enormous Napkins, and More

    Published: 12/12/2022
  9. Picking the Correct Utensil for Mac and Cheese, Spelling Like an Australian, Lingering Past Closing Time, and More

    Published: 12/5/2022
  10. Double-Dipping in Fondue, Ignoring Grandchildren, Squeaking at the Theatre, and More

    Published: 11/28/2022
  11. Enjoying Fancy Hotel Baths, Waking Snoring People, Returning Caning Jars, and More

    Published: 11/21/2022
  12. Toasting in Hungary, Dining Alone, Regifting Host Gifts, and More

    Published: 11/14/2022
  13. Asking for Doggie Bags, Sharing Train Outlets, Bringing Your Own Water, and More

    Published: 11/7/2022
  14. Enjoying Tuscan Bread, Handling Difficult Bridesmaids, Avoiding Gate Lice, and More

    Published: 10/31/2022
  15. Verifying Wedding RSVPs, Hogging Restaurant Gift Certificates, Using Hosts' Expensive Bath Products, and More

    Published: 10/24/2022
  16. Eating Sushi Properly, Donating Items to Charity, Arguing During Zumba Class, and More

    Published: 10/17/2022
  17. Holiday Break: Being Late for Surprise Parties, Sending Provocative Selfies, Lighting Candles, and More

    Published: 10/10/2022
  18. Escaping Excessive Birthday Plans, Updating Professional References, Sharing Phone Chargers, and More

    Published: 10/3/2022
  19. Celebrating Bidet Day, Living in Dorm Rooms, Withholding Pony Rides, and More

    Published: 9/26/2022
  20. Sending Electronic Birthday Cards, Telling People You're Moving, Making Voice Calls on Airplanes, and More

    Published: 9/19/2022

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Editors’ Notes: “I want to give everybody the tools to solve their own etiquette problems,” says Nick Leighton, cohost and producer of Were You Raised by Wolves?, a weekly podcast in which he and cohost Leah Bonnema look into the many sticky social situations we all face. “With each of the questions that we get, from the bonkers to the ordinary, I always try to take a step back and ask, ‘What are the bigger principles here?’ I'm always looking for topics that help us make a larger point.” In each episode, Leighton, a two-time Emmy Award-winning journalist, and Bonnema, a comic/writer, share practical advice on how to navigate a wide range of situations, from the serious to the whimsical—whether they tackle interrupting excessive talkers, establishing healthy boundaries with coworkers, or the proper way to eat Cheetos.When they developed the show in 2019, Leighton and Bonnema had one goal in mind: to have empathy for other people. Their informal conversations tackle a mix of personal topics, viewer questions, and the occasional historical fact with warmth and positivity and humor. Leighton views this approach as an antidote to a lot of the negativity he sees in the online world, while Bonnema thinks the show’s premise is a natural fit for her situational style of comedy. “A lot of my comedy is about events where I’m like, ‘What just happened here?’ or where I embarrass myself,” she says. “And, ironically, all of these fall under the guise of etiquette, where you either feel aggrieved or you feel like you committed some sort of social crime. I just loved the topic.”Leighton and Bonnema credit the show’s ongoing success to their work ethic. They haven’t missed a single week since they launched the show, which recently hit a new milestone: 100 episodes. But what they value the most, above all else, is how they've built a community of listeners from all backgrounds. “We have conservative grandmothers in Tallahassee to nonbinary chefs in Seattle and everybody in between,” he says. “Because who among us has not experienced an etiquette crime? This is universal.”---Etiquette, manners, and beyond! Join Emmy® Award-winning journalist Nick Leighton and acclaimed comedian Leah Bonnema ("Late Show with Stephen Colbert"), the perfect odd couple, as they try to make the world a nicer, more polite place and offer up practical advice to help you smoothly glide through any situation. Please listen and follow! (We'd send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)