318 Episodes

  1. Passing People in Theaters, Removing Shoes in Homes, Using Coasters Properly, and More

    Published: 4/25/2022
  2. Eating Chocolate Truffles, Breaking Up With Gym Partners, Giving Up Your Window Seat, and More

    Published: 4/18/2022
  3. Enjoying Aperitivi, Behaving at Dog Parks, Gifting Towel Racks, and More

    Published: 4/11/2022
  4. Crashing Open Houses, Demanding Wedding Photos, Stealing Hand Lotion, and More

    Published: 4/4/2022
  5. Pressing the Flight Attendant Call Button, Eating Drippy Sandwiches, Throwing Bags in Cafes, and More

    Published: 3/28/2022
  6. Ordering Appetizers Without Asking, Buffering in Restrooms, Borrowing Bathing Suits, and More

    Published: 3/21/2022
  7. Meeting Royalty, Calling Out Lazy People, Malfunctioning Umbrellas, and More

    Published: 3/14/2022
  8. Turning People Orange, Ordering Extra Courses, Clipping Nails in Public, and More

    Published: 3/7/2022
  9. Drinking Turkish Coffee, Behaving at the Gym, Returning Holiday Cards, and More

    Published: 2/28/2022
  10. Declining Double Dates, Gifting Unwanted Jams, Bailing on Weddings, and More

    Published: 2/21/2022
  11. Using Mourning Stationery, Talking While Chewing, Fixing Flat Tires, and More

    Published: 2/14/2022
  12. Mistaking Customers for Employees, Forgetting Previous Introductions, Washing Dishes Before Returning, and More

    Published: 2/7/2022
  13. Giving Red Envelopes, Reseating in Theaters, Cancelling on Friends, and More

    Published: 1/31/2022
  14. Feeling Obligated to Babysit, Serving Sliced Lemons, Fixing Friends' Typos, and More

    Published: 1/24/2022
  15. Following Dress Codes, Copying Roommates' Décor, Clearing Plates, and More

    Published: 1/17/2022
  16. Glaring at Others, Hanging up Coats, Picking Up Trash, and More

    Published: 1/10/2022
  17. Holding Teacups, Tying Up Boats, Telling People They Look Tired, and More

    Published: 1/3/2022
  18. Holiday Break: A few of our favorite things

    Published: 12/27/2021
  19. Gifting Pajamas, Expecting Cards With Money, Tipping at the Holidays, and More

    Published: 12/20/2021
  20. Eating French Fries, Misspelling Names, Littering at Disneyland, and More

    Published: 12/13/2021

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Editors’ Notes: “I want to give everybody the tools to solve their own etiquette problems,” says Nick Leighton, cohost and producer of Were You Raised by Wolves?, a weekly podcast in which he and cohost Leah Bonnema look into the many sticky social situations we all face. “With each of the questions that we get, from the bonkers to the ordinary, I always try to take a step back and ask, ‘What are the bigger principles here?’ I'm always looking for topics that help us make a larger point.” In each episode, Leighton, a two-time Emmy Award-winning journalist, and Bonnema, a comic/writer, share practical advice on how to navigate a wide range of situations, from the serious to the whimsical—whether they tackle interrupting excessive talkers, establishing healthy boundaries with coworkers, or the proper way to eat Cheetos.When they developed the show in 2019, Leighton and Bonnema had one goal in mind: to have empathy for other people. Their informal conversations tackle a mix of personal topics, viewer questions, and the occasional historical fact with warmth and positivity and humor. Leighton views this approach as an antidote to a lot of the negativity he sees in the online world, while Bonnema thinks the show’s premise is a natural fit for her situational style of comedy. “A lot of my comedy is about events where I’m like, ‘What just happened here?’ or where I embarrass myself,” she says. “And, ironically, all of these fall under the guise of etiquette, where you either feel aggrieved or you feel like you committed some sort of social crime. I just loved the topic.”Leighton and Bonnema credit the show’s ongoing success to their work ethic. They haven’t missed a single week since they launched the show, which recently hit a new milestone: 100 episodes. But what they value the most, above all else, is how they've built a community of listeners from all backgrounds. “We have conservative grandmothers in Tallahassee to nonbinary chefs in Seattle and everybody in between,” he says. “Because who among us has not experienced an etiquette crime? This is universal.”---Etiquette, manners, and beyond! Join Emmy® Award-winning journalist Nick Leighton and acclaimed comedian Leah Bonnema ("Late Show with Stephen Colbert"), the perfect odd couple, as they try to make the world a nicer, more polite place and offer up practical advice to help you smoothly glide through any situation. Please listen and follow! (We'd send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)