318 Episodes

  1. Wording Wedding Invitations, Behaving on Trains, Picking Strangers' Figs, and More

    Published: 6/19/2023
  2. Grabbing Fresher Milk, Escaping Unwanted Reunions, Returning Bad Sangria, and More

    Published: 6/12/2023
  3. Handling Chronic Complainers, Paying Bar Tabs, Choosing Garnishes, and More

    Published: 6/5/2023
  4. HOLIDAY BREAK: Flying the Flag at Half-Staff, Being the Perfect House Sitter, Using Charity Return Address Stickers, and More

    Published: 5/29/2023
  5. Insulting People's Talent, Ignoring Polite Signs, Flying Without Headphones, and More

    Published: 5/22/2023
  6. Giving Anniversary Gifts, Enjoying Theme Parks, Sharing Hotel Rooms, and More

    Published: 5/15/2023
  7. Skipping Sit-Down Dinners, Using Too Many Towels, Upgrading Friends on Flights, and More

    Published: 5/8/2023
  8. Eating Artichokes, Enjoying Airport Lounges, Tucking In Chairs, and More

    Published: 5/1/2023
  9. Escaping Charity Solicitations, Writing Wedding Invitations, Ghosting Hair Dressers, and More

    Published: 4/24/2023
  10. Enjoying a Fika in Sweden, Staying at Bed & Breakfasts, Telling Guests What Not To Bring, and More

    Published: 4/17/2023
  11. SPRING BREAK: Eating Like Europeans, Signing Business Emails, Giving Repeat Gifts, and More

    Published: 4/10/2023
  12. Invoicing Guests for Parties, Spitting in Public, Ruining Spa Days, and More

    Published: 4/3/2023
  13. Sending Wedding Cards to Exes, Being Polite to Smart Speakers, Asking People for Favors, and More

    Published: 3/27/2023
  14. Tossing Food at Hotels, Sharing Discount Tips, Entering Without Knocking, and More

    Published: 3/20/2023
  15. Passing Salt and Pepper, Asking for Pickles, Running Into Acquaintances, and More

    Published: 3/13/2023
  16. Correcting People's Grammar, Declining Expensive Invitations, Sharing EV Charging Stations, and More

    Published: 3/6/2023
  17. Throwing Bridal Showers, Losing Lasagna Privileges, Contacting Noisy Neighbors, and More

    Published: 2/27/2023
  18. Holiday Break: Cutting Lines, Answering Phones, Picking Berries, and More

    Published: 2/20/2023
  19. Taking Calls on Treadmills, Discarding Broken Freezers, Surviving Middle School, and More

    Published: 2/13/2023
  20. Eating Cake With Ice Cream, Behaving in Movie Theaters, Cutting Nails in Public, and More

    Published: 2/6/2023

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Editors’ Notes: “I want to give everybody the tools to solve their own etiquette problems,” says Nick Leighton, cohost and producer of Were You Raised by Wolves?, a weekly podcast in which he and cohost Leah Bonnema look into the many sticky social situations we all face. “With each of the questions that we get, from the bonkers to the ordinary, I always try to take a step back and ask, ‘What are the bigger principles here?’ I'm always looking for topics that help us make a larger point.” In each episode, Leighton, a two-time Emmy Award-winning journalist, and Bonnema, a comic/writer, share practical advice on how to navigate a wide range of situations, from the serious to the whimsical—whether they tackle interrupting excessive talkers, establishing healthy boundaries with coworkers, or the proper way to eat Cheetos.When they developed the show in 2019, Leighton and Bonnema had one goal in mind: to have empathy for other people. Their informal conversations tackle a mix of personal topics, viewer questions, and the occasional historical fact with warmth and positivity and humor. Leighton views this approach as an antidote to a lot of the negativity he sees in the online world, while Bonnema thinks the show’s premise is a natural fit for her situational style of comedy. “A lot of my comedy is about events where I’m like, ‘What just happened here?’ or where I embarrass myself,” she says. “And, ironically, all of these fall under the guise of etiquette, where you either feel aggrieved or you feel like you committed some sort of social crime. I just loved the topic.”Leighton and Bonnema credit the show’s ongoing success to their work ethic. They haven’t missed a single week since they launched the show, which recently hit a new milestone: 100 episodes. But what they value the most, above all else, is how they've built a community of listeners from all backgrounds. “We have conservative grandmothers in Tallahassee to nonbinary chefs in Seattle and everybody in between,” he says. “Because who among us has not experienced an etiquette crime? This is universal.”---Etiquette, manners, and beyond! Join Emmy® Award-winning journalist Nick Leighton and acclaimed comedian Leah Bonnema ("Late Show with Stephen Colbert"), the perfect odd couple, as they try to make the world a nicer, more polite place and offer up practical advice to help you smoothly glide through any situation. Please listen and follow! (We'd send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)