318 Episodes

  1. Eating Raw Oysters, Behaving at Concerts, Tipping With Lottery Tickets, and More

    Published: 11/6/2023
  2. Requiring Marriage Certificates, Reimbursing Acquaintances, Taking New York Taxis, and More

    Published: 10/30/2023
  3. Using the Correct Fork, Passing on Invitations, Traveling With Dogs, and More

    Published: 10/23/2023
  4. Breaking Apart Bananas in Supermarkets, Sending Wedding Invitations Via Text, Bailing on Dinners in Paris, and More

    Published: 10/16/2023
  5. HOLIDAY BREAK: Eating Croissants, Pretending Not to Notice, Missing Plumbers, and More

    Published: 10/9/2023
  6. Very Special 200th Episode Extravaganza

    Published: 10/2/2023
  7. Keeping Hot Sauce for Guests, Decanting White Wines, Hanging Coats on Airplanes, and More

    Published: 9/25/2023
  8. Buttering Bread Properly, Going on First Dates, Ringing Bells for Service, and More

    Published: 9/18/2023
  9. Replacing Lost Gloves, Arriving at Parties Too Early, Commandeering Other People’s Dates, and More

    Published: 9/11/2023
  10. HOLIDAY BREAK: Celebrating Bidet Day, Living in Dorm Rooms, Withholding Pony Rides, and More

    Published: 9/4/2023
  11. Dining Late in Spain, Taking Care of Pets, Using Toilet Bowl Brushes, and More

    Published: 8/28/2023
  12. Throwing Surprise Parties, Using Revolving Doors, Responding to Rude Texts, and More

    Published: 8/21/2023
  13. Crashing White House Weddings, Stealing Flowers From Neighbors, Charging Phones In Public, and More

    Published: 8/14/2023
  14. Saving Café Seats, Overstuffing Shared Fridges, Rescheduling Marathons, and More

    Published: 8/7/2023
  15. Eating Green Beans, Handling Group Texts, Fibbing on Busses, and More

    Published: 7/31/2023
  16. Demanding Birthday Cake, Putting Time Limits on Meals, Getting Nosy at the Pharmacy, and More

    Published: 7/24/2023
  17. Suspending Coffee, Being A Good Customer, Eating on Camera, and More

    Published: 7/17/2023
  18. SUMMER BREAK: Going Camping, Being Uninvited to Weddings, Giving Gift Cards, and More

    Published: 7/10/2023
  19. SUMMER BREAK: Gaslighting Bosses, Addressing Postcards, Trashing Swag, and More

    Published: 7/3/2023
  20. Sharing Casino Winnings, Taking Photos at Landmarks, Honking at Friends, and More

    Published: 6/26/2023

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Editors’ Notes: “I want to give everybody the tools to solve their own etiquette problems,” says Nick Leighton, cohost and producer of Were You Raised by Wolves?, a weekly podcast in which he and cohost Leah Bonnema look into the many sticky social situations we all face. “With each of the questions that we get, from the bonkers to the ordinary, I always try to take a step back and ask, ‘What are the bigger principles here?’ I'm always looking for topics that help us make a larger point.” In each episode, Leighton, a two-time Emmy Award-winning journalist, and Bonnema, a comic/writer, share practical advice on how to navigate a wide range of situations, from the serious to the whimsical—whether they tackle interrupting excessive talkers, establishing healthy boundaries with coworkers, or the proper way to eat Cheetos.When they developed the show in 2019, Leighton and Bonnema had one goal in mind: to have empathy for other people. Their informal conversations tackle a mix of personal topics, viewer questions, and the occasional historical fact with warmth and positivity and humor. Leighton views this approach as an antidote to a lot of the negativity he sees in the online world, while Bonnema thinks the show’s premise is a natural fit for her situational style of comedy. “A lot of my comedy is about events where I’m like, ‘What just happened here?’ or where I embarrass myself,” she says. “And, ironically, all of these fall under the guise of etiquette, where you either feel aggrieved or you feel like you committed some sort of social crime. I just loved the topic.”Leighton and Bonnema credit the show’s ongoing success to their work ethic. They haven’t missed a single week since they launched the show, which recently hit a new milestone: 100 episodes. But what they value the most, above all else, is how they've built a community of listeners from all backgrounds. “We have conservative grandmothers in Tallahassee to nonbinary chefs in Seattle and everybody in between,” he says. “Because who among us has not experienced an etiquette crime? This is universal.”---Etiquette, manners, and beyond! Join Emmy® Award-winning journalist Nick Leighton and acclaimed comedian Leah Bonnema ("Late Show with Stephen Colbert"), the perfect odd couple, as they try to make the world a nicer, more polite place and offer up practical advice to help you smoothly glide through any situation. Please listen and follow! (We'd send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)