318 Episodes

  1. Eating Baguettes in France, Spitting Wine at Tastings, Returning Gifts to Guests, and More

    Published: 3/25/2024
  2. Loitering Around Toasters, Being Embarrassed by Employees, Picking Strangers' Teeth, and More

    Published: 3/18/2024
  3. Identifying Salt and Pepper Shakers, Using AI for Thank You Notes, Walking Up Escalators, and More

    Published: 3/11/2024
  4. Taking Flowers From Funerals, Giving Guests Plastic Cutlery, Asking About People's Weight, and More

    Published: 3/4/2024
  5. Eating Soft Boiled Eggs, Getting A Professional Massage, Being Judgy at Airports, and More

    Published: 2/26/2024
  6. President's Day Break: Commandeering Televisions, RSVPing to Facebook Events, Returning Shopping Carts, and More

    Published: 2/19/2024
  7. Dressing Your Personality at Weddings, Helping People Who Trip, Giving Money to Cashiers, and More

    Published: 2/12/2024
  8. Thanking Emperors for Tea, Traveling With Pets, Stealing Wipes at the Gym, and More

    Published: 2/5/2024
  9. Using Squeegees in Showers, Stopping Judgy Comments, Asking Strangers for Wedding Cash, and More

    Published: 1/29/2024
  10. Numbering Floors, Making Others Uncomfortable, Picking Teeth in Public, and More

    Published: 1/22/2024
  11. Objecting to Marriages, Watching Strangers' Luggage, Asking for More Chairs, and More

    Published: 1/15/2024
  12. Eating Napoleons, Using Annoying Email Phrases, Looking Nice on Subways, and More

    Published: 1/8/2024
  13. Holiday Break: Following Dress Codes, Copying Roommates' Décor, Clearing Plates, and More

    Published: 1/1/2024
  14. Holiday Break: Grabbing Fresher Milk, Escaping Unwanted Reunions, Returning Bad Sangria, and More

    Published: 12/25/2023
  15. Inviting Dogs Into Your Home, Lowering Gift-Giving Anxiety, Crashing Birthday Parties, and More

    Published: 12/18/2023
  16. Watching Kalle Anka, Receiving Compliments, Bringing Empty Containers to Restaurants, and More

    Published: 12/11/2023
  17. Licking Yogurt Lids, Calling Stores for Help, Running Out of Dining Chairs, and More

    Published: 12/4/2023
  18. Sending Holiday Cards, Finding Bear Skulls, Dropping Umbrellas, and More

    Published: 11/27/2023
  19. Holding Subway Doors, Sending Preprinted Cards, Using Recycled Vases, and More

    Published: 11/20/2023
  20. HOLIDAY BREAK: Obeying Little Signs, Coordinating Pot Lucks, Buying Concert Tickets, and More

    Published: 11/13/2023

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Editors’ Notes: “I want to give everybody the tools to solve their own etiquette problems,” says Nick Leighton, cohost and producer of Were You Raised by Wolves?, a weekly podcast in which he and cohost Leah Bonnema look into the many sticky social situations we all face. “With each of the questions that we get, from the bonkers to the ordinary, I always try to take a step back and ask, ‘What are the bigger principles here?’ I'm always looking for topics that help us make a larger point.” In each episode, Leighton, a two-time Emmy Award-winning journalist, and Bonnema, a comic/writer, share practical advice on how to navigate a wide range of situations, from the serious to the whimsical—whether they tackle interrupting excessive talkers, establishing healthy boundaries with coworkers, or the proper way to eat Cheetos.When they developed the show in 2019, Leighton and Bonnema had one goal in mind: to have empathy for other people. Their informal conversations tackle a mix of personal topics, viewer questions, and the occasional historical fact with warmth and positivity and humor. Leighton views this approach as an antidote to a lot of the negativity he sees in the online world, while Bonnema thinks the show’s premise is a natural fit for her situational style of comedy. “A lot of my comedy is about events where I’m like, ‘What just happened here?’ or where I embarrass myself,” she says. “And, ironically, all of these fall under the guise of etiquette, where you either feel aggrieved or you feel like you committed some sort of social crime. I just loved the topic.”Leighton and Bonnema credit the show’s ongoing success to their work ethic. They haven’t missed a single week since they launched the show, which recently hit a new milestone: 100 episodes. But what they value the most, above all else, is how they've built a community of listeners from all backgrounds. “We have conservative grandmothers in Tallahassee to nonbinary chefs in Seattle and everybody in between,” he says. “Because who among us has not experienced an etiquette crime? This is universal.”---Etiquette, manners, and beyond! Join Emmy® Award-winning journalist Nick Leighton and acclaimed comedian Leah Bonnema ("Late Show with Stephen Colbert"), the perfect odd couple, as they try to make the world a nicer, more polite place and offer up practical advice to help you smoothly glide through any situation. Please listen and follow! (We'd send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)