318 Episodes

  1. Choosing Cake Flavors, Embarrassing Teenagers, Showing Up with Wet Hair, and More

    Published: 12/6/2021
  2. Devastating People With a Glance, Interviewing for Colleges, Discouraging Office Interruptions, and More

    Published: 11/29/2021
  3. Spending Other People's Money, Tipping Sanitation Workers, Going Rogue at Weddings, and More

    Published: 11/22/2021
  4. Squeezing Grapefruits, Paying for Damaged Pans, Photographing Great Danes, and More

    Published: 11/15/2021
  5. Leaving Dirty Diapers, Chatting in Supermarkets, Dining Left-Handed, and More

    Published: 11/8/2021
  6. Obeying Little Signs, Coordinating Pot Lucks, Buying Concert Tickets, and More

    Published: 11/1/2021
  7. Sending Unimpressive Flowers, Running Other People's AirBNBs, Abandoning Friends in Airports, and More

    Published: 10/25/2021
  8. Playing Games, Gifting Soap, Petting Dogs, and More

    Published: 10/18/2021
  9. Gaslighting Bosses, Addressing Postcards, Trashing Swag, and More

    Published: 10/11/2021
  10. Sending Signals With Cutlery, Partying in Art Galleries, Flushing Without Permission, and More

    Published: 10/4/2021
  11. Slipping Out of Parties, Preventing Excess RSVPs, Stopping Coworker Texts, and More

    Published: 9/27/2021
  12. Wearing Hats, Behaving on Boats, Remembering Song Lyrics, and More

    Published: 9/20/2021
  13. Telling Cooks They're Terrible, Leaving Cash on Tables, Handling Wet Laundry, and More

    Published: 9/13/2021
  14. Wearing Name Tags, Shopping Yard Sales, Fat-Shaming Pets, and More

    Published: 9/6/2021
  15. Breaking Up With Hairdressers, Crashing Bachelor Parties, Cracking Eggs, and More

    Published: 8/30/2021
  16. Eating Croissants, Pretending Not to Notice, Missing Plumbers, and More

    Published: 8/23/2021
  17. Drinking Abandoned Sodas, Skipping Destination Weddings, Squeezing into Revolving Doors, and More

    Published: 8/16/2021
  18. Very Special 100th Episode Extravaganza

    Published: 8/9/2021
  19. Telling People to Smile, Judging People’s Homes, Keeping Quiet in Gazebos, and More

    Published: 8/2/2021
  20. Eating Bananas Properly, Sipping With Straws, Spraying Colognes on Buses, and More

    Published: 7/26/2021

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Editors’ Notes: “I want to give everybody the tools to solve their own etiquette problems,” says Nick Leighton, cohost and producer of Were You Raised by Wolves?, a weekly podcast in which he and cohost Leah Bonnema look into the many sticky social situations we all face. “With each of the questions that we get, from the bonkers to the ordinary, I always try to take a step back and ask, ‘What are the bigger principles here?’ I'm always looking for topics that help us make a larger point.” In each episode, Leighton, a two-time Emmy Award-winning journalist, and Bonnema, a comic/writer, share practical advice on how to navigate a wide range of situations, from the serious to the whimsical—whether they tackle interrupting excessive talkers, establishing healthy boundaries with coworkers, or the proper way to eat Cheetos.When they developed the show in 2019, Leighton and Bonnema had one goal in mind: to have empathy for other people. Their informal conversations tackle a mix of personal topics, viewer questions, and the occasional historical fact with warmth and positivity and humor. Leighton views this approach as an antidote to a lot of the negativity he sees in the online world, while Bonnema thinks the show’s premise is a natural fit for her situational style of comedy. “A lot of my comedy is about events where I’m like, ‘What just happened here?’ or where I embarrass myself,” she says. “And, ironically, all of these fall under the guise of etiquette, where you either feel aggrieved or you feel like you committed some sort of social crime. I just loved the topic.”Leighton and Bonnema credit the show’s ongoing success to their work ethic. They haven’t missed a single week since they launched the show, which recently hit a new milestone: 100 episodes. But what they value the most, above all else, is how they've built a community of listeners from all backgrounds. “We have conservative grandmothers in Tallahassee to nonbinary chefs in Seattle and everybody in between,” he says. “Because who among us has not experienced an etiquette crime? This is universal.”---Etiquette, manners, and beyond! Join Emmy® Award-winning journalist Nick Leighton and acclaimed comedian Leah Bonnema ("Late Show with Stephen Colbert"), the perfect odd couple, as they try to make the world a nicer, more polite place and offer up practical advice to help you smoothly glide through any situation. Please listen and follow! (We'd send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)