318 Episodes

  1. Discovering Bone Dishes, Enduring Waiting Rooms, Texting Wedding Thank-Yous, and More

    Published: 9/22/2025
  2. Dodging In-Law Requests, Melting Candy Bars in Diapers, Hiding Coffee Truths, and More

    Published: 9/15/2025
  3. Using Napkins in Italy, Changing Passwords on Friends, Handing Strangers Your Phone, and More

    Published: 9/8/2025
  4. Anniversary Bonus: Holding Teacups Properly, Escaping Boring People, Clapping for Plane Landings, and More

    Published: 9/1/2025
  5. Overreacting to Messy Houseguests, Skipping a Friend’s Wedding, Wiping Down Sticky Trucks, and More

    Published: 8/25/2025
  6. Meeting Amy Vanderbilt, Acknowledging Mysterious Gifts, Retrieving Lost Phones, and More

    Published: 8/18/2025
  7. Rescuing Lost Chips, Taking Over Parties, Correcting People's Pronunciation, and More

    Published: 8/11/2025
  8. Saving Seats in Singapore, Avoiding Unnecessary Meetings, Bringing Your Own Sodas, and More

    Published: 8/4/2025
  9. Pouring Water Like Wine, Breaking Up Before Weddings, Tossing Hair on Floors, and More

    Published: 7/28/2025
  10. Inviting Thirteen Guests, Attending Pool Parties, Hogging Laundry Machines, and More

    Published: 7/21/2025
  11. Summer Break: Demanding Birthday Cake, Putting Time Limits on Meals, Getting Nosy at the Pharmacy, and More

    Published: 7/14/2025
  12. Summer Break: Showing Up Empty-Handed, Riding French Elevators, Having Nice Weekends, and More

    Published: 7/7/2025
  13. Abandoning Dinner Guests, Running Into Former Students, Singing Happy Birthday, and More

    Published: 6/30/2025
  14. Responding to Invitations, Enjoying Tennis, Dipping French Fries, and More

    Published: 6/23/2025
  15. Brushing Teeth in Airports, Taking Dessert from Buffets, Handling Unwanted Vacation Guests, and More

    Published: 6/16/2025
  16. Flipping Over Cutlery, Making Friends in Kindergarten, Choosing Cup Holders, and More

    Published: 6/9/2025
  17. Mowing Lawns Without Asking, Coordinating Invitation Responses, Dressing for Theme Weddings, and More

    Published: 6/2/2025
  18. Memorial Day Break: Crashing White House Weddings, Stealing Flowers From Neighbors, Charging Phones In Public, and More

    Published: 5/26/2025
  19. Playing Duck Duck Goose, Sending Out-of-Office Emails, Taking Free Food Samples, and More

    Published: 5/19/2025
  20. Pulling Out Chairs, Sharing Photos with AI, Making Unreasonable Demands, and More

    Published: 5/12/2025

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Editors’ Notes: “I want to give everybody the tools to solve their own etiquette problems,” says Nick Leighton, cohost and producer of Were You Raised by Wolves?, a weekly podcast in which he and cohost Leah Bonnema look into the many sticky social situations we all face. “With each of the questions that we get, from the bonkers to the ordinary, I always try to take a step back and ask, ‘What are the bigger principles here?’ I'm always looking for topics that help us make a larger point.” In each episode, Leighton, a two-time Emmy Award-winning journalist, and Bonnema, a comic/writer, share practical advice on how to navigate a wide range of situations, from the serious to the whimsical—whether they tackle interrupting excessive talkers, establishing healthy boundaries with coworkers, or the proper way to eat Cheetos.When they developed the show in 2019, Leighton and Bonnema had one goal in mind: to have empathy for other people. Their informal conversations tackle a mix of personal topics, viewer questions, and the occasional historical fact with warmth and positivity and humor. Leighton views this approach as an antidote to a lot of the negativity he sees in the online world, while Bonnema thinks the show’s premise is a natural fit for her situational style of comedy. “A lot of my comedy is about events where I’m like, ‘What just happened here?’ or where I embarrass myself,” she says. “And, ironically, all of these fall under the guise of etiquette, where you either feel aggrieved or you feel like you committed some sort of social crime. I just loved the topic.”Leighton and Bonnema credit the show’s ongoing success to their work ethic. They haven’t missed a single week since they launched the show, which recently hit a new milestone: 100 episodes. But what they value the most, above all else, is how they've built a community of listeners from all backgrounds. “We have conservative grandmothers in Tallahassee to nonbinary chefs in Seattle and everybody in between,” he says. “Because who among us has not experienced an etiquette crime? This is universal.”---Etiquette, manners, and beyond! Join Emmy® Award-winning journalist Nick Leighton and acclaimed comedian Leah Bonnema ("Late Show with Stephen Colbert"), the perfect odd couple, as they try to make the world a nicer, more polite place and offer up practical advice to help you smoothly glide through any situation. Please listen and follow! (We'd send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)