318 Episodes

  1. Unloading Emotional Baggage, Planting Cherry Trees, Humming Aggressively, and More

    Published: 1/6/2020
  2. Clinking Glasses, Making Eye Contact on the Subway, Tipping Tow Truck Drivers, and More

    Published: 12/30/2019
  3. Regifting Fruitcakes, Partying at the Office, Taking Down Your Tree, and More

    Published: 12/23/2019
  4. Using Chopsticks in a Thai Restaurant, Being Prompt, Giving People Personal Space, and More

    Published: 12/16/2019
  5. Greeting with a Kiss, Going Rogue at a Dinner Party, Getting Catfished, and More

    Published: 12/9/2019
  6. Eating Soup, Giving Compliments, Entering Without Knocking, and More

    Published: 12/2/2019
  7. Talking Politics, Being Vegan, Saying Grace, Bringing Tupperware, and More

    Published: 11/25/2019
  8. Ordering Wine in a Restaurant, Writing Condolence Letters, Talking in Elevators, and More

    Published: 11/18/2019
  9. Texting Late at Night, Escaping Dinner Parties, Regifting Dreamcatchers, and More

    Published: 11/11/2019
  10. Eating Grapes the Wrong Way, Exercising in the Airplane Bulkhead, Texting Thank You Notes, and More

    Published: 11/4/2019
  11. Halloween Helpings: Dealing with Greedy Children, Choosing Appropriate Costumes, Being Too Old for Trick-or-Treating, and More

    Published: 10/28/2019
  12. Removing Socks on Airplanes, Splitting Bills at Brunch, Hosting Weddings on Grass, and More

    Published: 10/21/2019
  13. Leaving Your Spouse in Coach, Confronting Celebrity Neighbors, Avoiding Obnoxious Colleagues, and More

    Published: 10/14/2019
  14. Congratulating Brides, Sending Food Back, Leaving Voicemails, Remembering Names, and More

    Published: 10/7/2019
  15. Wearing Windsuits, Ghosting Colleagues, Seasoning Food, Flagging Waiters, and More

    Published: 9/30/2019
  16. Popping Champagne, Cancelling Plans, Double-Dipping, and More

    Published: 9/23/2019
  17. Snooping in Medicine Cabinets, Tipping on Take-out, Going to the Opera, and More

    Published: 9/9/2019
  18. Sneak Peek: Were you raised by wolves?

    Published: 8/27/2019

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Editors’ Notes: “I want to give everybody the tools to solve their own etiquette problems,” says Nick Leighton, cohost and producer of Were You Raised by Wolves?, a weekly podcast in which he and cohost Leah Bonnema look into the many sticky social situations we all face. “With each of the questions that we get, from the bonkers to the ordinary, I always try to take a step back and ask, ‘What are the bigger principles here?’ I'm always looking for topics that help us make a larger point.” In each episode, Leighton, a two-time Emmy Award-winning journalist, and Bonnema, a comic/writer, share practical advice on how to navigate a wide range of situations, from the serious to the whimsical—whether they tackle interrupting excessive talkers, establishing healthy boundaries with coworkers, or the proper way to eat Cheetos.When they developed the show in 2019, Leighton and Bonnema had one goal in mind: to have empathy for other people. Their informal conversations tackle a mix of personal topics, viewer questions, and the occasional historical fact with warmth and positivity and humor. Leighton views this approach as an antidote to a lot of the negativity he sees in the online world, while Bonnema thinks the show’s premise is a natural fit for her situational style of comedy. “A lot of my comedy is about events where I’m like, ‘What just happened here?’ or where I embarrass myself,” she says. “And, ironically, all of these fall under the guise of etiquette, where you either feel aggrieved or you feel like you committed some sort of social crime. I just loved the topic.”Leighton and Bonnema credit the show’s ongoing success to their work ethic. They haven’t missed a single week since they launched the show, which recently hit a new milestone: 100 episodes. But what they value the most, above all else, is how they've built a community of listeners from all backgrounds. “We have conservative grandmothers in Tallahassee to nonbinary chefs in Seattle and everybody in between,” he says. “Because who among us has not experienced an etiquette crime? This is universal.”---Etiquette, manners, and beyond! Join Emmy® Award-winning journalist Nick Leighton and acclaimed comedian Leah Bonnema ("Late Show with Stephen Colbert"), the perfect odd couple, as they try to make the world a nicer, more polite place and offer up practical advice to help you smoothly glide through any situation. Please listen and follow! (We'd send you a hand-written thank you note if we could.)